This is my response to Jenny’s wonderful post on Life Cycle of Connectedness.
Jenny, I feel sorry that your mum’s connections are waning at all levels. Also, it’s sad to lose a close colleague. The appearance on Facebook may be an honourable way to keep those pass away a good memory though.
Your mention of the different stages of connectedness life cycle often happen in communities. My observation and experience is that some people would choose the community which would meet her continuous needs, at different times, though sometimes some others would just gradually “fade” away from being an active networker to the peripheral (as legitimate peripheral participant) to eventual “withdrawal”. When there is a renewal of interests or something that is exciting “offered” by the network or community, then some may be drawn back as rekindled networkers of the community.
Would this depend on the context and the “stage” of the community? Such pattern of life cycle may appear different when it is relating to religious community, where it is not sparked by interests (only), but by faith, belief, and love. A sense of helping and loving each other in an altruistic manner is an inner call, from most religions. Would this pattern be reflective of how we meet new acquaintances or friends in the real world, or even in the digital world?
Connectivity: can it die? May be physically, but not spiritually… as people always would be in remembrance of the friendship formed. Once a friend, could be a friend forever, that Utopian state of friendship that is embraced in one’s heart.
Thanks Jenny for your inspiring post.

